RM> > I should qualify that a lot of my comments on women being after money
  > > are from back a long time when dealing with young women looking to
  > > find a husband (or sugar daddy). Probably when dealing with older
  > > women with a lot more life experience they think a little differently
  > > and more willing / able to stand on their own without a man around.


AR>I know it is a meme already, but I find the notion so broken.

AR>I mean, when you complain that girls my age are all superficial and after you
  >ooks, money or any hard emotion you can put on the table, you get told: that
  >because you are trying young immature ones. Try a level-headed mature lady in
  >ad.

But that may mean dating women a lot older than you when you are young.

Not directly related but I remember dating women up to 23 years old
when I was 17..   B)

AR>And the problem is the mature level-headed ones probably come with a lot of e
  >ional luggage, sons, you name it, and you are a fallback plan because their o
  >r 1st and 2nd marriages failed, and you are just next try.

Yes, that's what I meant about being able to stand on their own and
not 'needing' a man.. That doesn't necessarily mean you can't get
into a successful long term relationship with one.. just that she
won't take as much crap as one who feels she can't stand on her own.

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